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What a wonderful piece! My one big fashion love affair was with a local (Bay Area) brand, Babette, that sadly closed up shop in 2016 after 48 years in business and without ever selling out to a bigger company. My affair started with a casual flirtation -- shopping for bargains at the San Francisco outlet store -- but I eventually became so smitten that I offered to work in one of the Babette shops when the manager took a vacation. I earned $25 an hour, a generous wage back then, but I probably would have done it for free. I got to know the designer/owner, Babette Pinsky, and started writing for her. (The Babette Gazette was our short-lived newsletter.) I even ghost-wrote the text for the company's 40th-anniversary hardcover book. The clothes? Think Issey Miyake, but American. Lots of creative pleating. The factory in Oakland had a giant pleating machine that I was told was essentially the same equipment used in ancient Egypt. Other garments were pleated by hand. Everyone earned a living wage. I still own many of the pieces I bought over the years, and (incredibly) am still collecting specimens on eBay and in consignment shops. I'll probably never experience that kind of brand love again.

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I had to Google you because after reading your article I was SURE you are a Scorpio. I am one week shy of being a year younger than you (and I used to be a redhead but am gracefully graying). That passion,, when finding something new, more than one color of the same item....it all sounded so familiar. 😁 I truly enjoyed this piece! I hope you are much relieved of your migraine. Dark, quiet room, chilled aloe pack over eyes and rest.

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Well, one thing we have in common is we are both looking forward to reading Tommy Orange's new novel. [If the author is the brand, and the book is the product, then I don't want to break up with brands like Orange and Orlean.] But I'll never spend money on designer clothes when I can spend it on books.

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I too am a migraineur, mostly under control now with monthly injections of Ajovy. Kaiser no longer prescribes pain relief for me (and most others), so I use an ice pack I can wear on my head, and the usual dark room/quiet/etc. Take good care ad be kind to yourself.

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I used to shop in that W 86th St. Gap in the early 1980s. I still miss an impossibly soft pink and grey flannel shirt I bought at that store. On one icy day, I slipped at the store entrance and literally fell into the Gap, per the ad campaign at the time. While I was on the ground (I'd fractured an elbow) someone stole my purse. Ah NY! Hope you feel better soon.

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Everything is making sense now. I grew up on West 85th, went to that Gap and Charivari (which I also forgot about until right now!) You are really making me time travel and I love it. These days I’m an obsessive book-buyer. I have a stack I need and want to read but that doesn’t stop me from buying more. I guess it’s a fine problem to have. Also guessing you’ve tried rizatriptan? That usually does the trick for me. I’d never know you had a migraine while writing this 🤍

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I am so happy that I am not alone! I’m remembering more and more… Tahari. Vince. Rag and Bone. Sigh. They got me.

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Nilli Lotan. Alexandra Chung via Poshmark, so that was an inexpensive version except her burbury collab which resulted in an amazing trench coat that I … have never found a way to wear but still treasure. The tshirts of Free City (again thank you Poshmark) are my current obsession and… I know I know… Goop. Goop very carefully, bc I have learned that if it looks like it might be made with a weird and uncomfortable fabric it is. Mistakes have been made. Expensive ones (also learned: sweater cuffs should work as cuffs, not hang open for all the water to drip down when you do dishes which maybe suggests that I do not have a Goop lifestyle). But if it works it WORKS.

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I love the Goop sweaters!!

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Best migraine medication- Quilipta. Life altering.

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I'll ask my doctor! I'm not familiar with it.

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Clothes? Meh. Fountain pens...yes. Kaweco Sport is my new love.

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I saw the iPhone in your hand, and my immediate thought was: Oh, no! she's breaking up with Apple! How can anyone do that?

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Loved The Library Book, Susan. Grateful you're on Substack. Please support budding authors here as everyone is doing their best in a crazy, wacko publishing market. It's always a pleasure to read your work. cheers, Mike

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For migraine I recently switched to an oldie but goodie, Fioricet. Works like magic for me, replaced Sumatriptan. Very individual, in my experience. Good luck!

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I would happily and lovingly wear your hand-me-downs!!!

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Dying to know if you ever went through a Dries van Noten phase. (Currently in the throes myself!)

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I finally understand my 21 year old daughter love affair with brands, clothes, etc. Very happy to report you and her would get along...

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